torstai 11. huhtikuuta 2019

Life as a beach

So, today we arrived in Athens, where a friend of mine is going to compete in a Crossfit competition. It was pretty nice to be picked up at the airport by a driver who held a sign with her name up for us to see and took us straight to our apartment at the seaside.
There's the most amazing little park just across the street and you can actually see the Mediterranean Sea from there. Also, the warm weather here makes it feel like summer already. It was so great to enjoy the scent of all different kinds of flowers and trees growing and feel the sun on our skin and then watch the sun go down over the ocean.
The next couple days will be a little more stressful, but in a good way. I'm looking forward to the weekend and watching my friend compete as well as great sunsets over Piraeus.


keskiviikko 10. huhtikuuta 2019

I Don't Wanna Be Buried..

In a pet cemetery.
Went to watch the remake of Stephen King's Pet Sematary today and let's say... I was surprised. I am still trying to figure out if I was positively or negatively surprised, though. It was definitely a fun flick and it would have been quite boring had it just been a simple remake. But. The poetic freedoms the movie took were slightly weird. Not necessarily bad, but it might rub fans of the original version or the book wrong. I'd love to know what Stephen King himself thinks of the film. I can picture the old weirdo being amused by it. Actually, the tongue-in-cheek ending, as much as it made light of the horror element of the story, was a nice diversion from the whole theme and brought to mind more recent zombie flicks like Zombieland or Warm Bodies. But it cost the movie its scary ending.
Anyhow, it was a fun movie and whenever it did take its turns away from the original storyline, it did so with a wicked wink and some humor.

maanantai 25. heinäkuuta 2016

"What do you wanna do in life?"

Today, at my fifth job interview in six days, the guy who interviewed me asked me what I wanted to do. What my goals were. And I looked at him, shrugged, and said: "I don't know. Be happy." Guess I tanked that job interview. But I do know what I want to do. 
I want to spend quality time with my friends and family.
I want to travel the world and live in foreign places until they become as familiar as home.
I want to see my friends be happy.
I want to not worry about money.
I want to meet interesting people.
I want to make people smile. 
I want to be good at my job, yes, but I don't want it to be my whole life.

And you know what? I don't need a big time career for that. I need a job that makes me smile most days and doesn't suck too hard on bad days. A job that pays enough for plane tickets every now and then and let's me help people. I might never be a big player, but that's not my goal. 

tiistai 21. kesäkuuta 2016

The US of A, a summary

After a week back, I slowly but surely am done sorting experiences and mentally work through them. Those three weeks in the US have been flooding my mind and senses with impressions, thoughts, and sensations. Going through them now, there are definitely some moments and lessons that stand apart from the rest.

Things I've learned:
- never underestimate distances, because "it looks like it's a short walk on this map". Know your map's legend. Use it. Remember: a mile is longer than a kilometer. Don't do my "I'm just heading out for a short jog around the Mall"-thing in DC. It's a 10k, alright, even if it looks like just a couple of km on the map (which is because DC is ginormous and gigantomanic and I love it)

Look down the Mall. Does this look like a short walk?

- jaywalking 101 in Boston
- jaywalking MA-degree in NYC
- f*** is a very versatile word
- don't eat clam chowder on the West Coast. Don't do it. Just don't.

The real thing in Boston

- baseball hats lead to conversations. Conversations can be good or bad, depending on what hat you are wearing.
- don't wear non-Bostonian sports team hats in Boston. They will make you buy a new one. A better one. A Boston one. Trust me, I've been there and was forced to do that ("You're wearing the wrong Sox' hat, m'am"). Do not, under any circumstances, wear a New York Yankees hat in Boston.
- Philadelphians suck at fixing things. The Liberty Bell cracked during an attempt to fix a minor crack. And it couldn't be rung anyhow, because the steeple of the church it hung in was slowly but surely rotting away, no longer supporting the weight of the bell. And I am not even making this up.

No reason to crack up, but they suck at fixing things.

- there are several original versions of the Declaration of Independence (I remember six?). Which one did Nicholas Cage steal? I'm confused.
- the subway in Boston doesn't always work the way you know subways to be working. Sometimes you have to cross the tracks to get to another platform. Sometimes your train is just one cart. Also, you can actually take the Boston subway to Wonderland.
- Talking about train destinations, you can board a train to Pleasantville or Valhalla at Grand Central Station.

Third destination from the top. One-way ticket to Valhalla, please?

-Patriotism is ubiquitous; first you are taken aback, then you get used to it, then you go: "Yay for USA! There are Red, White and Blue M&M's!!!"

Patriotic M&M's making a mess

- Vegas is nothing but a main street with some freakishly big hotels along it and a few side streets in the middle of the desert. There's nothing there. I was asking myself the whole time how someone got the stupid idea to build a city in the middle of the desert. I guess it's because no one can hear you scream.
- there is a cupcake ATM in Vegas.

No money, no problem?

- always check the engine room before driving off the rental car lot. Make sure all lids are where they are supposed to be.
- don't park your car in the sun if you like touching the wheel whilst driving.
- wear sunscreen when in the desert. No, a 20 SPF does not suffice.
- there are no free parking spaces in Downtown Santa Monica.
- 14 Dollars is a cheap parking space in LA. In fact, it's so cheap that you can't get any of those and have to pay at least 20 bucks.
- LA is not a city. LA is a community of neighbourhoods and there's nothing going down in Downtown
- there are no not-hot lifeguards. I tried to find an ugly lifeguard in Venice Beach (yes, that's the kind of person I am), but I couldn't find one.
- it's not broken until duct-tape can't fix it. And duct-tape can fix a whole lot of things. The sidewalk for example: 

Things I'm going to miss:
- toilet covers (how have I lived without them until now?!?) in public restrooms
- the ocean(s)
- diet root beer
- memorials and monuments
- people asking you "How are you?" first thing
- people saying "Have a naice day and may gahd blass yeh" when saying good bye
- that Bahston accent
- that Nevada accent
- the rhotic R of New York
- customer service workers generally being friendly. that was a concept I liked.

Things I'm definitely not going to miss:
- "plus tax"
- "gratituity not included"
- chloride 
- American bed linen, covers, the way they make the beds. 
- what is it with American shower faucets? How do you work those? Why are the faucets different in every city? Does showering have to be rocket science?
- sleeping bag camps in parks. people sleeping in doorways. people sleeping in subways, people sleeping in stations, people sleeping on the beach. people sleeping on the streets. The feeling of utter impotence and helplessness when you realise you can't help them. 

Art adressing the homeless-problem on the Highline in New York


Favourite places:

Coney Island (NYC)

Boston. In general. The harbour in particular.

Brooklyn. D.U.M.B.O.

                                      
Washington DC. as a whole. But especially the Smithsonian Institution. 
The Mall. 
The Potomac.

 Grand Canyon. It's a church of nature.

Venice Beach. 

Favourite moments:
1. When I was wearing my Cap sweatpants and Avengers tee to breakfast in Williams and the little boy in the Captain America t-shirt looked at me awestruck, pointed at me, whispered "look, Captain America" to his mom and hid his face in his mother's lap when he noticed I saw. He later came over to say I was cool for wearing the sweatpants, because he was a big fan of Captain America. It felt like a superhero myself, being whispered about at the neighbouring table. :D
2. trying to catch a wave at Venice Beach. 
3. watching the Memorial Day Parade in Washington DC and visiting Arlington National Cemetary afterwards. There were so many families honouring their fallen and we got to be a part of it. 



4. Getting out of the shuttle bus at Mather Point the South Rim. And having the first look on the Grand Canyon. You can never relive this one first look or the feeling it stirred in you. This moment, this...I don't find any non-religious vocabulary to describe it, this reverent, devout, humbled feeling in seeing what has to be one of the most impressive sights this world has to offer. 


5. Yoga with Tara Stiles at Strala Yoga. You have to meet this woman to feel her incredible energy. Also, she's a little goofy and has the greates laugh.Total girl crush, atm. 


6. Personal one: meeting my "long lost"cousin again and seeing her daughter and boyfriend for the first time. 

Favourite food (no order of preference, just a whole lotta love for all the good food out there):
1. Mexican at Las Cambritas in Cambria, CA. Visit Cambria. If only for the experience of eating Mexican at Las Cambritas. Also, Cambria has this cat lover's store and is alround beautiful. I'll return one day and bring more time and a surf board!
2. Clam choder (clam chowdah) at Quincy Market, Boston. Best by Boston & Maine Fish Company 
3. the peanut butter chocolate milk shake at Johnny Rockets. Thank goodness, it's a chain!
4. Breakfast at the Corner Bakery Café in Washington DC. 
5. Breakfast at Andrew's Coffee Shop in New York. 
6. Philly Cheese Steak at Philadelphia Bourse House.
7. Breakfast at Stephanie's at Newbury in Boston. Great waiters, too. Thank you, guys (I only remember John's name, because I was way too nervous on our fist morning there, but the waiter from our first morning actually came to chat with us on our second morning there, even though we'd been waited on by John. He actually remembered us and... guys, the staff there is just excellent)
8. The Coney Island Dog at Jody Maroni's, Venice Beach.

A few "Whoa, f*** me, I'm in America!" moments:
1. walking home from Crossfit Hell's Kitchen, looking down a random sidestreet and just seeing the Empire State Building chilling there in the morning light, only a few block away. The fricking Empire State Building!

2. Jogging along the Charles River Basin on my first morning, listening to country music, and suddenly being talked to by someone with the broadest Boston (Bahston) accent I'd heard so far (yeah, that was about to change). 
3. Standing on the Brookly Bridge, watching the sun rise. Standing in Dumbo, watching out through that iconic street (Washington Street) onto Manhattan Bridge and finally understanding that the bridge in the pictures ain't Brooklyn Bridge. Feeling Brooklyn. Falling in love with Brooklyn.
Grand Army Plaza (Brooklyn)



4. Getting abducted by a subway train (it was an express) and suddenly finding myself in The Bronx. Riding the New York subway in general. You've seen it in so many movies.
5. Standing on the Coney Island Boardwalk and seeing the iconic Parachute Jump Tower. Seeing the Cyclone.


6. Getting out of the front door of Union Station and looking smack dab right at the emeffing Capitol. Realising that all streets this side of the Mall lead toward the Capitol.
7. Standing in front of Abraham Lincoln in the morning light, just the two of us having a silent conversation, then looking out unto the Mall, Washington Monument and the Capitol in the distance. Just me and the president in white marble. I still get goosebumps thinking about it.

8. Driving past the famous Las Vegas sign. Driving down the freeway toward the Hoover Dam. Driving down a 6 lane freeway through LA. Driving up Mulholland Drive. Driving down Sunset Boulevard. Driving, driving, driving. Driving down the 101 and the 1. Driving the West Coast.
9. Boulevards lined with freakishly tall palm trees. Like, palm trees actually grow there.
10. Lifeguard towers. And the Santa Monica Pier. Pacific Park on the Santa Monica Pier.

11. Seeing Bethesda's Terrace. I almost had tears in my eyes, as it was more beautiful than I had expected. Seeing The Met with my own eyes. Basically, scenes from Gossip Girl playing in my head.


12. The Golden Gate Bridge.
13. Realising I'm more of an East Coast person.
14. Starting to use the f-word far too frigging much. and the emeff-expletive. and generally cursing as a sign of excitement, good and bad.

Holy F***, what a ride! ;)

sunnuntai 19. kesäkuuta 2016

...be sure to wear some flowers in your hair

If you're going to San Francisco, that is. I didn't, they didn't fit under my Pats hat. But well, I'm not a flower child anyway.

Our Ocean Park Motel was a great affair. It was run by an old couple who had restored the historic motel to be a vintage dream. Plus, we had two rooms with three kingsize beds, so nobody had to share a bed with anyone for the last couple of nights in America. The rooms were nice and...roomy, the bath was pretty vintage (which doesn't mean dirty or anything, just that it looked rather retro and had a beauty mirror desk thingie behind the bathroom door), the furniture was also from the sixties or seventies, with strange switches and cords. 


up the stairway on the right was our place



It was like a small flat rather than a hotel or motel room, and it made you feel cozy and at home. And then you heard the tram rattle by. In 10-20 minute rhythms. But it only took two or three to get used to, after that, we slept right through the rattle and tattle. We decided to try out a pizza place that was only a few blocks from the motel, which meant not having to get into the car. There was nothing much in our neighbourhood, the zoo, but other than that, it was mostly residential. It had colourful houses, a bunch of Chinese people, and surfers (with wetsuits hanging from their balconies). 


Houses in our neighbourhood

And then there was this pizza place. That served Italian and Indian food, because the chef was Indian. So, we had Indian at a pizza place. But it was great. At the same time we watched the Red Sox (Oh, hey there throwback to Boston) vs. Giants game, and were happy my mother didn't wear her Red Sox head then and there, as a bunch of creepy teens got in, some of them wearing Giants' merchandise. We noticed that one of them was a Sox fan later, but still. 




The next morning, I went for a run down to the Pacific and it was feeling kind of doomsday-esk. I don't know if the feeling came from the slight not even rain, but fog that started condensating on your skin or the clouds rolling in from the sea, the sky seemingly hanging really low, the empty beach at 6am (in Santa Monica there were people doing Tai Chi and running and drumming and...it was pretty busy even at 5:30) with just three other lost souls fishing in the incoming waves. Or maybe it was the dark, almost black sand. Or the dead bird I stumbled over. Or the sign at the entrance, which basically said: "Don't swim or you'll end up dead, because undertow". Anyhow, it felt pretty dark and eerie. 



It was a surfer neighbourhood after all

After we all had gotten up and showered, we went to the only café in walking distance, which was the Java Beach, one of the cutest little cafés I'd seen on our trip so far, with a beachy look and feel, and really nice waitresses, as well as great coffee and breakfast. 


Waikiki surfing logo and oatmeal for breakfast

From there we got into the tram, which turned into a metro train at West Portal, and drove through the city to Market/Powell Street, to go see the tourist info. We watched a cable car getting turned around and then walked up Powell Street, because my mom, who'd been to San Francisco before, insisted that driving Cable Car was boring. 




When we hit Union Square, the sun came out through the clouds and in spite of the wind, it became quite warm. We changed streets and got unto Stockton, walking through a several story parking house up to Bush Street and toward Chinatown. The Gate was impressive, but the streets and vendors of Chinatown were pretty interesting, as the architecture differed so much from the surrounding modern buildings, you could see behind the smaller buildings of Chinatown. From there, we went up Filbert Street to Coit Tower, which was quite a steep climb, and suddenly we got why there were streets, busses were not allowed in, as that wasn't even the steepest street in the city. Plus, we were pretty happy our car stood in the motel parking lot, because none of us would have wanted to drive here. Coit Tower is great for getting a better view of the city and the bay, even if you don't get up onto the top, you can see a lot from the terrace in front of it. 

Union Square

Berlin got buddy bears, San Francisco has buddy hearts

please enter Chinatown

clash of the architectural cultures 

American version of the Terracotta Army

From there we took the bus to - what we thought would be down to Fisherman's Wharf, but the bus went a pretty crazy route, driving down (or rather up) one street, turning at the end, then driving down again. No idea what the point of that was, but we didn't question it, as in the end, we arrived where we wanted to, even if it took us a little longer. There was a big sign at the glas wall behind the driver that said: "Please don't talk to the driver, unless you have questions", but seemingly, no one had told the driver, as he in a rather active manner pursued chats with the customers, talking about where they were going, greeting some of them by name, talking about other customers he hadn't seen in a while, like good old Rosie, was she okay, had the guy whose name he couldn't remember seen her? Hopefully she wasn't sick. Oh, and Barabara had been seen a lot of times with that strange guy no one knew the name of. Was he her boyfriend? He didn't look like good news. Oh, and did Henry move? Because he's always getting off at another stop these days and the house he was living in before looks a little neglected these days. Honestly, for someone who isn't into small talk, this was hell. I had fingers and toes crossed that he wouldn't suddenly want to strike up a conversation with us. But luckily he didn't ask us our names, but started to ask where we wanted to go and told us where to go, then asked for our origin and started babbling numbers in German and asking us if he said it right. In the end, it was quite funny. 

I really don't wanna drive here

Coit Tower

Streetfront of Pier 39

Dancing Crab mascott of Pier 39. Should be the crapping seagull, though

Loved this take-out design

Anyhow, with the directions he gave us, we reached Fisherman's Wharf and wandered around a little getting lost in the small tourist shops on Pier 39, playing a game of basketball at the arcade after having a burger in the arcade-adjacent burger joint, then we watched the sea lions beside the pier, who stank even worse than the elephant seals, but were also kind of cute. We went on to Pier 45, where the two US army boats USS Pampanito (submarine) and the SS Jeremiah O'Brien (Liberty Ship) are serving as museum boats these days. There was also an old storage hall at the beginning of the pier that didn't look like much, but housed a museum for old carnival and arcade games, which was one of the greatest things ever. There were old fortune teller booths, apparatuses to look into that showed you film strips of catastrophes or curious events that had happened and fascinated people, there were strongman games and old merry-go-rounds. We walked through there and regretted not having saved enough quarters to try every single thing. 

random impressive arch on an abandoned pier

USS Pampanito


Somehow we had spent most of our afternoon at the piers, and then walking down the harbour front and up Leavenworth unti we reached the famous Lombart Street, the "windiest road in the world", between Leavenworth on its lower end and Hyde Street on its upper end. It was colourful, decorated with a whole bunch of flowers and there were cute little houses on the sides of road. Walking down Hyde Street from there took longer than the walk up, because boy, was that street steep and we almost came rolling down a few times.

Leavenworth end 

ain't it purrty?

Go home street, you're drunk. Also, Know skateboards.

as seen from Hyde

random piece of street art

 Back down at the seafront, near Ghiradelli Square, we took a look at Hyde Street Pier, that had already closed for the day and realised that the whole harbourfront started to get ready to call it a day. We wanted to get back to Market/Powell and were just wondering about how in the world we could get there best with public transport, when our eyes fell onto the cable cars, which went right where we wanted to go. So, I suggested taking the Cable Car, my mum, once again said that it was boring, and my brother said that we don't have to enjoy it, but it's the shortes route and the least fuss to just take the Cable Car. It took us a while to get onto one of the cars, because there was a line longer than two cable cars, but when we got on, we got lucky and sat right in the front, my brother standing on the side. Yes, we did take a video, and yes, I am going to spare you the thing. But guess who really enjoyed their socks off on the ride? During the funny ups and downs that almost felt like a rollercoaster ride? Right, me mum, the woman who had insisted the whole time that driving in a cable car was boring. She was utterly fascinated by the work the driver did and giggled all the time. It was fun. It really was, and I'm happy we half forced, half rationalised her into it. 




Downtown, we held our eyes open for a nice restaurant and came across a Steak and Seafood pub-typie kind of thing called John's Grill. They handed us a menu and we all agreed to just take it and go in there. 
Short explanatory break right here; as you may well remember, I severly scratched open my shin the day before and it had been too cold and cloudy for shorts in the morning. I could not wear skinny jeans, because the wound was giving me sh**, and the only other wide pants I had with me were sweat pants. Captain America sweatpants to be exact. So there I was, wearing a Smithsonian t-shirt and my Captain America sweatpants, about to head into a pub-like restaurant, no problem, right?
Except: there were people wearing suits and evening gowns in there! There were people wearing brand clothing and when I say brand, I'm actually talking designer brand clothing. But none of the servers ever batted a lash at my inappropriate clothing. It was the single most weird experience in my life. Okay, no, the one wearing sweatpants in Galerie Lafayette in Berlin was even weirder, but: it was really weird. On the other hand, we had seen the prices on the menu before we entered (which, for the quality of food they were serving wasn't even that expensive), which meant we were able to pay our closer to 200 Dollar bill at the end of the day. Also, we were polite to the staff, so the staff was really friendly to us. And we tipped well. Lesson of the day: if you got money, no one gives a flying f*** if you come into their restaurant wearing sweatpants. :D

three course menu: oysters (NEVER AGAIN, YIKES), small garden salad, and lobster ravioli (maybe a little much parmigiano)

the maltese falcon

But there's someting else about John's Grill. Does any of you know the hardboiled detective novel by Dashiell Hammet "Maltese Falcon"? Does any of you know the film adaptation with Humphrey Bogart from 1941? Well, part of the movie was filmed in this exact restaurant, and they had the falcon from the movie exhibited next to the staircase. I was in a place Humphrey Bogart had been decades ago. 

Our last full day in San Francisco (and the US respectively) started once again at Java Beach, from where we made our way to the Golden Gate Park and its Japanese Garden, which was beautiful. There were Koi ponds and temples and peace lanterns and bridges, stone gardens and bamboo brushes... it was so tranquil and nice and calm and quiet. From there we did the one thing you have to do in San Francisco: we drove to and walked over the Golden Gate Bridge. You got a great view over the city from there and you can almost see Land's End beach to the other side. 





not in, but found near the Japanese Garden

been there, done that, didn't get the t-shirt because there was a line

We took the next bus down to the Palace of Fine Arts, a gigantic temple-like structure which had only been built for one year for some expo or exhibition and had been supposed to be destroyed after that. But, everything does not always go according to plan and the good people of San Francisco saved the Palace, which is a lucky thing. You feel pretty small along the enormous columns and cupolas of the Palace and it looks like the remains of an ancient Grecian temple in the middle of San Francisco, right next to a cute little duck and turtle pond. 


let there be art

On we went to Hyde Park Street Pier, where there was some nautical historical thing going on, explaining old ships and the work of the sailors on them. It was too much information to save into my already packed brain to really take in. And then we decided to go see Alcatraz. Walking down to the Pier from where the shuttle ship left, we encountered a few strange figures trying to sell us Alcatraz tickets, but we didn't think any of it. We went up to the ticket booth and asked when the next available tour would leave and the guy deadpan told us "July 5th"
I almost burst out laughing, because that seemed improbable. So, my brother went "No, I believe you misunderstood. When does the last available ship leave?" The answer was the same "July 5th". We went to ask if there were any other boats or companies going there, when we overheard a conversation pretty similar to ours, except that it went on a little differently. "And when's the next night tours available?" "July 10th, due to holidays and stuff" The woman asking burst out laughing. "Well, and what is so different about the night tours?" "Well, it's dark." She started laughing again as the clerk told her other things like "there are less people in a night tour" etc., but yeah. Our Alcatraz experience got cut a little short because they sold all their tickets over the internet, none left to sell to people just dropping by. 

After Alcatraz interruptus we decided to walk down the waterfront to go find a market hall my mother remembered from her last visit. We found it after walking down all the way to Pier 1, and it turned out to be the market that gave Market Street its name, so well, we just took that as a sign and headed down Market street right through the financial district that reminded us an awful lot of the area around the Potsdamer Platz in Berlin. 


this sea gull was so proud of its prey that it strutted like a up and down the street with its bag in beak, like a teenie with a new Micheal Kors handbag

museum ships at Hyde Street Pier

Financial District from the waterfront

pier. random pier.

market hall. Or Market Hall. 

Or maybe it was just home sickness. Anyway, we looked at old and modern bank buildings, people going by and then gave ourselves a little time for shopping before we met again to get dinner. And because it was still to early to call it a day, we went to see X-Men whatever-the-title-of-the-new-movie-is. Parts of the movie played in Berlin. Which was a nice thing to think about after our time in the US. Getting home somehow sounded like a good idea. 
It only took us a short stop on Oregon, one late dog, the rearranging of our flight's baggage, one missed flight, several mean-spirited desk clerks at German counters which made us miss the American customer service instantly, small talk with a Canadian guy who liked my Pats hat but not the Pats ("I can get on board with you liking the Gronk"), and about 20 hours to get back. But here we are. A whole lot of experiences richer and me already missing DC. Out of all these places, I miss DC like it's not even funny anymore. Maybe because me and DC, we still have business to handle. There's so much left to do there. So, yeah, next time I fly over there, you'll probably find me traipsing through Washington DC, Brooklyn, and/or New England. 

Course set for home and my own bed and pillow